There are many events and encounters with people these past couple of weeks that really got me thinking about a poem I wrote back on January 1, 2008 (it seems like such a long time ago, and I have gained so much in my worldy experiences and wisdom!); when I write this kind of free verse poetry, it really comes from the heart from what I'm truly feeling, and I think it's the hope that I can only pray and wish for in my life.
"Characteristics of Love"
Love comes softly in so many ways,
But not in the manner you'd expect.
It's not always love at first sight,
And that person is never perfect at all.
It gives us purpose,
Allowing us to feel joy, happiness, and
Fulfillment in our lives,
Something we need in our souls and hearts to just be.
Love decides when to come; you have no choice.
Most of the time, it's in the most ironic places in your life,
At the most inconvenient times,
When you least expect it.
It is not always romantic and sappy;
Sometimes it's downright mean and ugly
Because you may not have asked for it at first
And may have never wanted it to begin with.
Love can be hard to find at times as well
When the obstacles we face seem overpowering,
And the hurt and angst are present in the midst of it all.
But even if there is pain, sorrow, and loneliness
In those times of trial,
Love can overcome it all
Because it is the most powerful weapon we have.
It can be scary at times
To know that someone could care
And love you that much
Even though we may not feel and believe it ourselves.
Love is unconditional, just as God's love is.
Even if we fall away from what should be,
Forgiveness prevails, and we are
Welcomed back into loving and open arms, always.
Love is always perfect
Even if we aren't,
For it is through our imperfections and failures
That love is present, now and always.
